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Memes in Alltag daniel-hromada ()


Memes in Alltag

Session 0 · Memetics begins at home.

Before Internet memes, before ideology, before theory: gestures, tunes, habits, rituals, phrases, drawings, interfaces and everyday acts of copying.

Meme

“A meme is whatever is copied from person to person.”

— Susan Blackmore, working definition

For today, let us start with this deliberately simple definition.

Copied?

Copying does not necessarily mean making an exact duplicate.

You hear a joke.

You remember the structure, forget several words, change a character...

...and tell it to somebody else.

Something survived the transformation.

Two Worlds

external expression → perception → internal reconstruction → expression

A meme can appear outside us: as sound, gesture, image, text, object, ritual.

It can be reconstructed inside us: as memory, rule, association, expectation, intention.

Then it can become external again.

What exactly is being copied?

A Word of Warning

Memetics is a theory among other theories.

Human culture can also be studied through psychology, anthropology, sociology, cultural evolution, semiotics, media theory, neuroscience and many other perspectives.

Memetics highlights replication, variation and selection.

It does not explain the whole human being.

And although it may begin to look as if everything is a meme...

...it is not.

Not Everything That Spreads Is a Meme

A virus spreads. That does not make it a cultural meme.

Genes are copied. That does not make them memes.

You discover by yourself that fire is hot. No person-to-person copying was necessary.

A yawn may trigger another yawn through an evolved response rather than culturally learned imitation.

Spread alone is not enough.

Where Is the Meme?

Is the meme the sentence?

The idea expressed by the sentence?

The memory in somebody's brain?

The rule that allows the sentence to be reconstructed?

The pattern distributed across people, media and artifacts?

Different memetic theories answer differently.

Memethical Engineering

Memethical engineering is the deliberate design, modification, and circulation of memes and memetic environments in accordance with explicit ethical goals.

For example: counteracting propaganda and manipulation.

Increasing epistemic and cultural diversity.

Supporting critical reflection.

Increasing resilience against harmful or monopolizing meme complexes.

Engineering the Environment

Memetic engineering asks: How can this spread?

Memethical engineering must additionally ask: Should it spread?

Who benefits?

What disappears when it succeeds?

Can people recognize the mechanism?

Can alternatives survive?

Success ≠ virality.

Memes in Alltag

Let us now temporarily leave theory behind.

Look at ordinary life as a landscape of things passing from person to person.

We will move from the smallest and fastest patterns...

...toward increasingly complex cultural structures.

1 · Contagion

😮 yawning

😂 laughter

👏 applause

👀 looking where everybody else is looking

🌊 the stadium wave

These are useful starting examples because copying is immediately visible.

But some may be biological contagion rather than memes in Blackmore's strict sense.

2 · Gestures

🤝 handshake

✋ high five

👊 fist bump

✌ peace sign

🫶 hand-heart

finger hearts

air quotes

A tiny movement can carry socially learned meaning.

3 · Rituals

🎂 birthday cake + candles + song + wish

🥂 touching glasses before drinking

🎆 counting down at New Year

🪵 knocking on wood

🤞 crossing fingers

💰 throwing a coin into a fountain

Memes can become coordinated social scripts.

4 · Words

“Actually...”

“However...”

“You know?”

“At the end of the day...”

euh… [øː] , bah oui

блядь, f*ck, vole ...

Language is full of units which seem to "live their own life".

5 · Earworms

A melody enters through the ears.

Hours later it is still playing internally.

You hum it.

Somebody else hears it.

Now it may inhabit another mind.

An earworm is almost a cartoonishly clear memetic lifecycle.

6 · Drawings

♥ a heart that looks nothing like an anatomical heart

★ a five-pointed star

☀ a circle with rays

🏠 a square house with a triangular roof

💡 a light bulb meaning “idea”

We learn visual conventions by repeatedly encountering them.

7 · Interface Memes

💾 floppy disk = save

🔍 magnifying glass = search

⚙ gear = settings

🗑 bin = delete

♥ heart = like

☰ three lines = menu

The original object can disappear while its symbolic descendant survives.

8 · Fashion

ripped jeans

mullets

moustaches

Crocs

rolling trouser legs

particular sneaker styles

black clothing in particular creative milieus

Bodies become media.

9 · Food & Household Knowledge

family recipes

sourdough starters

cutting sandwiches diagonally

particular ways of folding pizza

“five-second rule”

putting a wet phone into rice

Useful, useless and questionable practices can all be culturally transmitted.

10 · Social Formats

the elevator pitch

brainstorming with Post-its

the agenda slide

the TED-style talk

“three things I learned...”

the Venn diagram

the iceberg diagram

Sometimes the meme is not the content but the format.

11 · Internet Memes

image macros

reaction GIFs

“POV:”

“starter pack”

“nobody: / absolutely nobody:”

“tell me X without telling me X”

“how it started / how it's going”

The Internet did not invent memes. It created an extraordinarily fast memetic environment.

12 · Stories & Rumours

urban legends

schoolyard rumours

ghost stories

“a friend of a friend once...”

life hacks

folk explanations

Stories are compressed, reconstructed and altered every time they move.

13 · Beliefs

superstitions

stereotypes

ideas about success

ideas about beauty

ideas about what a “proper career” looks like

ideas about how families, schools or workplaces should function

At this scale, memes begin to shape perception itself.

From Meme to Memeplex

Memes rarely live alone.

They support, trigger and protect one another.

A fashion includes clothes, vocabulary, gestures, music, places and identities.

A profession includes practices, jargon, values, rituals and status symbols.

Religions, ideologies, artistic movements and institutions can contain enormous interconnected systems of culturally transmitted elements.

Such complexes are often called memeplexes.

Replication

Something is encountered.

Something is reconstructed.

Something is expressed again.

Another person encounters it.

Replication does not require perfect duplication.

Variation

Misremember it.

Translate it.

Improve it.

Simplify it.

Exaggerate it.

Parody it.

Combine it with another meme.

Every transmission is an opportunity for mutation.

Selection

Some variants disappear.

Some are remembered.

Some are repeated.

Some fit a particular medium particularly well.

Some become part of institutions and persist for centuries.

Cultural environments select.

What Makes a Meme Successful?

easy to remember?

easy to reproduce?

emotionally intense?

funny?

useful?

beautiful?

shocking?

socially rewarded?

already familiar?

And are these the same properties that make a meme good?

The Memethical Question

A communication system optimized only for replication may reward whatever replicates best.

But the fastest-spreading cultural environment is not necessarily the most desirable one.

Memethical engineering asks how environments might instead preserve:

diversity · autonomy · transparency · reflection · plurality · resilience

Exercise · Find One

Think of one meme you encountered today.

Not necessarily an Internet meme.

Where did you encounter it?

What was its external form?

What did you reconstruct internally?

Did you reproduce it?

Did you modify it?

Why might this particular pattern survive?

Exercise · Classify It

gesture?

ritual?

phrase?

melody?

visual convention?

interface convention?

fashion?

social script?

story or belief?

memeplex?

Or perhaps: not a meme at all?

Three Questions to Keep

1. What is being copied?

2. Why does this variant survive?

3. What kind of cultural environment does its survival create?

Memes in Alltag

A handshake.

A birthday song.

A stupid little drawing in a school notebook.

A phrase you suddenly notice yourself saying.

A floppy disk that survived its floppy disk.

A belief nobody remembers learning.

Culture replicates through us—but never without being reconstructed by us.